Oral Sex Q & A’s from Published Books
- Why is oral sex called a blow job? (click here)
The sourced articles below should provide you with more information on the rewards and risks of fellatio.
- Oral Sex Is Associated With Reduced Incidence Of Recurrent Miscarriage
“Highlights:
-At population level, women with unexplained recurrent miscarriage had less oral sex
-Oral sex seems to influence pregnancy outcome in a proportion of the women
-Oral sex might induce maternal tolerance towards paternal antigens of the fetus …
A possible way of immunomodulation of the maternal immune system before pregnancy would be exposure to paternal antigens via seminal fluid to oral mucosa. We hypothesized that women with recurrent miscarriage have had less oral sex compared to women with uneventful pregnancy.”T.Meuleman, N.Baden, G.W.Haasnoot, Wagner, O.M.Dekkers, S.le Cessie, C.Picavete, J.M.M.van Lith, F.H.J.Claas, K.W.M.Bloemenkampa, sciencedirect.com, 3/27/2019
- 21 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Ever Gave a Blow Job
“Here are 21 pieces of sage guidance that all grown women wish they’d known before giving their first blow jobs. …
[1.] He’s paying less attention to what your face looks like than you think he is. …
[2.] And speaking of that: It probably feels nothing at all like you think it does. …
[3.] You can literally ask the guy what he wants. …
[4.] A penis doesn’t have eyeballs and can’t tell the difference between the back of a throat and the roof of a mouth. …
[5.] Anyone who DEMANDS a blow job is almost certainly not worth a moment of your time. …
[6.] It isn’t a fancy massage at a spa and therefore doesn’t have to be all about him. …
[7.] A penis isn’t a vagina or a Slip’N Slide and doesn’t just get wet on its own. …
[8.] You do not have to bow down before his erect penis like it’s royalty. …
[9.] You don’t have to swallow and then giggle and say, ‘OMG, it’s so fun to swallow your hot steamy cum, I really love it a lot!’ …
[10.] Your hands can pinch hit when your mouth needs some time on the bench. …
[11.] You’re not going to accidentally bite down on his penis with your teeth and sever it and leave him sterile for the rest of his life. …
[12.] Sometimes a penis doesn’t smell good and that’s because some men are disgusting. …
[13.] Penises that look small and non-menacing sometimes feel like novelty-sized pool noodles when they are inside of your mouth. …
[14.] You can use your tongue to trick him into thinking he’s all the way in your mouth. …
[15.] A blow job isn’t like a magic button that makes him come right now immediately. …
[16.] A BJ can be foreplay for men and doesn’t have to be the Big Main Event of the evening. …
[17.] This is one thing that porn can actually teach you a lot about, like the graphic sex ed you never had in school. …
[18.] Literally no one can deep-throat without gagging. …
[19.] You do not have to give a BJ just to get a BJ of your own. …
[20.] 69ing is terrible and overrated and bad, and let’s just ban it already. …
[21.] It doesn’t make you a slut to enjoy giving BJs and it doesn’t make you a prude to hate giving BJs. …”Hannah Smothers, cosmopolitan.com, 6/5/2018
- 17 Oral Sex Tips You’ll Both Lose Your Mind Over
“Oral sex is the great equalizer. No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it feel as good as possible. It’s especially important for women, who are often more likely to orgasm from clitoral stimulation (like oral sex, duh, if that wasn’t clear already). Here’s how to make sure both of you are giving as good as you get. …
[1.] Masturbating can help you figure out what you like. …
[2.] Get your whole body into it. …
[3.] Switch things up at the beginning. …
[4.] If it’s hard for you to focus on enjoying yourself, turn the lights off. …
[5.] You don’t need a partner to enjoy oral-like sensations. …
[6.] Nope, you don’t need to deep-throat. …
[7.] And since the subject came up, you don’t need to swallow either. …
[8.] Have him try sucking. …
[9.] He doesn’t need to ejaculate for a blow job to be enjoyable. …
[10.] Lube can taste good. …
[11.] Talk! Talk talk talk talk talk. …
[12.] Your hands can step up if your jaw feels tired. …
[13.] Just because he’s going down on you doesn’t mean he should ignore your other sensitive areas. …
[14.] Cooling down can be very hot. …
[15.] Go ahead, sit on his face. …
[16.] There’s a digital version of oral. …
[17.] Get cozy. …”Bethany Heitman, cosmopolitan.com, 5/1/2018
- These Oral Sex Tips Will Blow Him Away In Bed
“First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you – so long as you follow this sage advice.”
Redbook Staff, redbookmag.com, 3/15/2018
- How To Perform Fellatio
“If you believe everything you hear, you might think that guys love this so much technique and intent don’t matter. Think again. In reality, there is a lot of variation in fellatio skills, and knowing how to read your partner, what to do to him, and when to do it can make all the difference.”
Cory Silverberg, liveabout.com, 3/14/2018
- A Tale Of Two Bedrooms: Anonymous Couples Get Honest About Their (Oral) Sex Life
“Do you give and receive oral sex in your relationship?
Couple 1: Yeah, but that’s kind of basic, right? I had a friend from another culture and she said that for her oral sex was like a birthday treat for her man. I thought that was crazy. I see oral as just basic every day. Come on now.”Abiola Abrams, essence.com, 3/8/2018
- 31 Blow Job Techniques To Make Him Scream With Pleasure!
“You are about to learn 31 profoundly satisfying blow job techniques that will leave your man in a state of orgasmic bliss. … Now let’s learn some blow job techniques to make your man’s eyes roll into the back of his head and his toes curl in pleasure…
[1.] LICK, LICK, LICK IT …
[2.] Focus on the Tip …
[3.] The Topside of your Tongue …
[4.] His Balls – Don’t forget about his balls. …
[5.] Anilingus …
[6.] Wetter Is Better …
[7.] JUST THE TIP …
[8.] Kissing – Kissing the tip of his penis is a fabulous technique to start off your blow job and draw out the length of it …
[9.] The Twister …
[10.] Deep Throat …
[11.] Slip Inside …
[12.] Fingers & Hands …
[13.] THE UP & DOWN …
[14.] SUCK ON THIS …
[15.] AWESOME SAUCE …
[16.] Maple Syrup/Warm Chocolate Syrup/Cream …
[17.] Ice Cubes/Ice Cream …
[18.] Champagne …
[19.] GIVE HIM A HAND …
[20.] Jerk & Suck …
[21.] Time To Rest …
[22.] Work His Balls …
[23.] PLAY BALL(S) …
[24.] Kiss His Balls …
[25.] Lick His Balls …
[26.] Suck His Balls …
[27.] EYE TO EYE: ALL ABOUT EYE CONTACT …
[28.] Too Intense? …
[29.] Don’t Force It …
[30.] TWO STEPS FORWARDS & ONE STEP BACKWARDS …
[31.] WATCH THIS: BLOW JOB TUTORIAL VIDEO …”Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.com, 2/5/2018
- HPV Transmission During Oral Sex A Growing Cause Of Mouth And Throat Cancer
“Sexual contact, including oral sex and deep kissing, can transmit HPV from one person to another. The likelihood of contracting oral HPV is directly associated with number of sexual partners a person has had.”
Howard LeWine, MD, health.harvard.edu, 11/29/2016
- Oral Sex And HIV Risk
“Other STDs, such as syphilis, herpes, gonorrhea and chlamydia, can be transmitted during oral sex.”
CDC Resource, cdc.gov, 7/8/2016; (Broken link removed 12/2024)